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What is Cremation?
Cremation is simply the process of reducing the body to bone fragments through the application of direct flame, intense heat and evaporation. Over a period of up to three hours the body is transformed into small skeletal fragments, often referred to as cremated remains or cremains. The cremated remains of an average adult weigh six to eight pounds. The practice of cremation dates back centuries. Today it is more common in Western Europe and Japan than in the United States and Canada. However, the number of people in the U.S. and Canada selecting cremation as the form of final disposition has risen significantly during the past few years.
Do I Have A Choice For Services?
Cremation does not limit your choices. Services or ceremonies may precede or follow the actual cremation. Prior to the cremation there may be a visitation and/or funeral ceremony with the casketed body present. If a ceremony or service is conducted following cremation, the container containing the cremains may be displayed. This container is called an urn, which is taken to its final resting place following the ceremony. It is for the benefit of the family that arrangements for a ceremony are made and this should be carefully considered.
Can I Choose Where The Ashes Are Disposed?
Disposition of cremated remains is usually influenced by the type of memorialization desired. Just as ceremonies offer value to the family, so does establishing a permanent memorial. It serves as a focal point for the remembrance of a loved one and can help in overcoming grief.
- Cremains may be buried in the ground and have a headstone or marker just like a grave that contains a casket.
- Niches are also available. Niches are spaces in a wall or other above ground area. Niches, designed for one or two urns, are usually about a 12 inches square and can have granite, bronze or glass fronts
- Some cemeteries have special gardens where cremated remains may be scattered. Scattering should be carefully considered before doing so. Although the act of scattering over land or water may have some poetic romanticism, it is an irreversible decision. If no permanent memorial site is established, survivors may later experience regret, feeling that there is no longer a bond. The emotional value of establishing a permanent memorial can be very important.
Costs vary somewhat according to the type of services that are selected. Prices can range from several hundred to several thousand dollars. Local customs that affect demand for availability of facilities and services have an effect on cost. Other factors include the type of service or ceremony conducted, the choice of cremation casket or container, the selection of a memorial urn, and the form of memorialization.
Can Pre-Planning Bring Peace of Mind?
It certainly can help. When it is practical or possible, making arrangements in advance can provide the peace of mind that all details have been taken care of in a way that is satisfying to you and your survivors. A discussion with the help of a funeral service professional can assure that everyone involved understands the arrangements. Preplanning can accomplish this goal. Making any kind of funeral arrangements involves many choices. It is helpful to consider all the options before making final decisions about such an important event. Click here for pre-planning information
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